I wish my future self would visit me

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Later when you're ready, can make the small changes, one step at a time. You've really been through a rough time. I'll keep you in my prayers.

When we're in pain it's hard to see that we are still in complete control, after all. We know what we want and what we don't want. I thank God that we have the power to choose between the two. This is the way we take back our power. What we allow ourselves to think and believe is entirely up to us. It's just that when we're hurting we sometimes don't realize that. The power is there. We just have to tap into it and see things for the way they are, not try to change them or go back. We're not going that way. We're moving towards the future and I see this is your goal. I'm very proud of you for realizing that and taking steps towards the future. I know you'll get there.

As we move beyond the holiday season, it's common to feel a sense of emptiness or disconnection. We may find ourselves wondering where to find happiness, only to realize that it's been within us all along. The truth is, happiness isn't something we discover; it's something we cultivate through our choices and mindset.

The Bible reminds us that true joy comes from within. "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence" (Psalm 16:11). When we focus on our relationship with God and cultivate a deep sense of inner peace, we become less dependent on external circumstances.
I lost my husband in 2005. I keep my focus on Jesus and not the abuse that I suffered from him for 34 years. Jesus gives me that peace I need that passes all understanding.

If your older self could visit you, she would almost certainly scold you for all the chances you missed, easy choices you made and refused because you wanted more, when "enough" was right in front of you. This isnt a criticism of you. This is just how people are. We take a risk we arent prepared for, and ask for more than we are prepared to work for.. But one way or another, your journey will continue..😷

Lot of folk here are going through this now or have, so you've got an understanding community around. Look for what works for you, adopt what does and keep moving forward.

It’s certainly not selfish. You deserve those days. I hope it’s a better year for you.

Certainly not selfish wishing for a better life for ourselves.
We all deserve peace and harmony.

me too

Where's the fun knowing how your life will turn out,just don't stick to the norm,do something different if you want your life to change in some ways