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What gives a person value in your opinion?

Iwillwait · M Best Comment
Integrity, Honesty, Servitude, Knowledge, Generosity, Core Values, Ethics.
elafina · 36-40, F
@Iwillwait 🤗
Iwillwait · M
@elafina 🤗
Iwillwait · M
@elafina Thank you.

rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Let's forget all the nonsense people are blabbering and focus on the real world facts.
Okay?

1. Money.
If you don't have money, half the world's going to abandon you.

2. Beauty/s3x appeal
I suppose fame could also be considered under here.
How beautiful are you? Are you s3xy? Are you a supermodel? Are you a handsome hunk?
If you do, then people are going to want to be "friends" with you.
If you're not, nobody's looking your way.
Consider yourself invisible.

3. Talent/skills
Are you talented? Do you have special skills? Do you have experience in a certain field?
How useful are you?
That's the only reason people will put up with you.

4. Brains/intelligence.
If you're lacking in the first three, you best pray to God you got the last one; 'cause if you don't, you might as well cease to exist.

That's the order.

Everything else - kindness, integrity, morals & ethics, honesty etc etc - Nobody cares! Okay? Let's make this absolutely perfectly clear: Nobody cares about your morals and values. Nobody cares who you are as a person. Nobody's interested in all that. People say they are, but they are not.
As soon as you lose the 4 key values that I mentioned, everyone you've ever known will distance themselves from you. Because without one or more of these, you'll just be a burden to them.

You're welcome.
kimmy159 · F
@rrraksamam I appreciate that as well. At the end of the day, we all want to have some luxury (at least that’s the case for me too), but I also don’t mind working hard for that myself. I just don’t see myself clicking with anyone long term who wouldn’t match that more or less. I have no intention to become the support giver financially nor be maintained either 😂 We also want someone who understands us and our worries, so being around the same intelligence (or someone smarter) is nice, if not then I guess as long as they’re nice to look at it could fill some gabs 😂 (jk)
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@kimmy159 Everyone talking about kindness and humility and blah blah blah... those are all secondary traits.
A person could have all of those good traits but if they're lacking the four I mentioned above, they're going to be treated as losers.
That means, for those who didn't get it the first time: No dates. No dates, no romantic interests, no girlfriends, no relationships, no marriage.
The best you'll get is the friendzone.
kimmy159 · F
@rrraksamam It’s just the harsh reality 🤷🏻‍♀️ when I got promoted at my job a few months ago, I got the most Linked in messages I had ever received in my life 😂 of random people too and they all started adding me. It was so confronting really. People don’t take you seriously until you have some supposed value in the areas you mentioned 🙈
NOS4R2 · 36-40
I suppose so long as they don't shit on other people and they have inner growth - that's pretty valuable.
Nebula · 41-45, F
@NOS4R2 well you never know around here
NOS4R2 · 36-40
@Nebula yeah, thankfully it's internet .
If sw was rl, I'd be wearing a hazmat suit, sitting in a bucket of sanitizer
Nebula · 41-45, F
@NOS4R2 Ill protect you
Pfuzylogic · M
Their integrity or ability to be honest and own their actions.
Also their ability to give respect to people not based on personal power or affluence.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
Not being a loudmouth goes a long way
Nebula · 41-45, F
@Unlearn that's it?
Unlearn · 41-45, M
@Nebula To begin with, yes. I tend to avoid loudmouths whenever possible, so there's no opportunity to discover their other values...
VampireOfDesire · 26-30, M
@Nebula think about it
Nebula · 41-45, F
@VampireOfDesire so only women and fat men have value to you?
VampireOfDesire · 26-30, M
@Nebula oh we going whats valuable to me? I dont think i have that
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Nothing. They can take it or leave it. It is only my perspective.

No two people have the same perspectives. And therefore everything else is meaningless.

Even the society at large has a different perspective than most individuals perspectives.

Why is there so much divorce? They no longer have even similar perspectives.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Who anyone on here is to decide who has value and who doesn't? Everyone has some value.
@CrazyMusicLover A child predator
Umile · 41-45, F
@NativePortlander1970 I am in no way condoning it. But some people are just very sick. I don't think I can ever fully understand the mentality of a child predator. Ruthless. Sick.
@Umile Child predation goes far beyond a sickness, it's indescribable, I saw how severely it affected my two closest cousins by their own father.
JovialMoose · 46-50, M
There are a lot of intangibles...

1. Someone who puts a bit more effort to teach instead of just do
2. Helpers
3. People who try to lift others up instead of putting them down
4. People who see beyond themselves
Their existence is their value. In my belief.
It's not for me to give other people a value.
It's for me to have my values and live by those. Some people may not belong in my value system but it doesn't determine their value.
bookerdana · M
My opinion is unpopular?? pfffft!

Integrity,kindness ,wisdom-intelligence and a sense of humor..the last vastly under-rated
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
People that talk to you before they ditch you. They tell you the truth at least. Give you a reason instead of leaving you.confused.
The ability to recognize what a wonderful person I am 😌
Nebula · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine well you make it so easy
@Nebula sweet talker ☺️
Nebula · 41-45, F
Genuine, true to self person who has integrity. Integrity covers a boatload of virtues.
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Just living. Because the potential for good is in everyone
Umile · 41-45, F
Their sense of Humility.

If they knew how to treat people.

How to think.
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
if they have integrity, honour and principles that they live by.
Iwillwait · M
Thank you for Best Comment.
Nebula · 41-45, F
@Iwillwait you're welcome
Sanatio · F
Their character
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
Usually their absence.
Sausage McMuffins
Magenta · F
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Big tiddies
Iwillwait · M
TY 4 BC! 🤗
Nebula · 41-45, F
@Iwillwait certainly
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Someone who is just themselves
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Nebula · 41-45, F
@GeistInTheMachine then why bother to interact
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
@Nebula Exactly.
Nebula · 41-45, F
@GeistInTheMachine okie dokie
PersistenceOfMemory · 31-35, F
Self-knowledge ....
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
Their net worth
VisionQuest · 51-55, M
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
Focus more on judging themselves than others
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
whatever they can 🫴 that helps make the world a better place or whatever their potential is to do that.

is this one of your personals profile questions?
Nebula · 41-45, F
@lumberjackslam what's that now?
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
@Nebula oh I thought maybe you were filling out a profile on a personals site and wanted us to do it for you
Nebula · 41-45, F
@lumberjackslam yes, that's what I would want 🤨
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Nebula · 41-45, F
@DDonde value as a person, like what makes you value one person over another
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