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rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Let's forget all the nonsense people are blabbering and focus on the real world facts.
Okay?
1. Money.
If you don't have money, half the world's going to abandon you.
2. Beauty/s3x appeal
I suppose fame could also be considered under here.
How beautiful are you? Are you s3xy? Are you a supermodel? Are you a handsome hunk?
If you do, then people are going to want to be "friends" with you.
If you're not, nobody's looking your way.
Consider yourself invisible.
3. Talent/skills
Are you talented? Do you have special skills? Do you have experience in a certain field?
How useful are you?
That's the only reason people will put up with you.
4. Brains/intelligence.
If you're lacking in the first three, you best pray to God you got the last one; 'cause if you don't, you might as well cease to exist.
That's the order.
Everything else - kindness, integrity, morals & ethics, honesty etc etc - Nobody cares! Okay? Let's make this absolutely perfectly clear: Nobody cares about your morals and values. Nobody cares who you are as a person. Nobody's interested in all that. People say they are, but they are not.
As soon as you lose the 4 key values that I mentioned, everyone you've ever known will distance themselves from you. Because without one or more of these, you'll just be a burden to them.
You're welcome.
Okay?
1. Money.
If you don't have money, half the world's going to abandon you.
2. Beauty/s3x appeal
I suppose fame could also be considered under here.
How beautiful are you? Are you s3xy? Are you a supermodel? Are you a handsome hunk?
If you do, then people are going to want to be "friends" with you.
If you're not, nobody's looking your way.
Consider yourself invisible.
3. Talent/skills
Are you talented? Do you have special skills? Do you have experience in a certain field?
How useful are you?
That's the only reason people will put up with you.
4. Brains/intelligence.
If you're lacking in the first three, you best pray to God you got the last one; 'cause if you don't, you might as well cease to exist.
That's the order.
Everything else - kindness, integrity, morals & ethics, honesty etc etc - Nobody cares! Okay? Let's make this absolutely perfectly clear: Nobody cares about your morals and values. Nobody cares who you are as a person. Nobody's interested in all that. People say they are, but they are not.
As soon as you lose the 4 key values that I mentioned, everyone you've ever known will distance themselves from you. Because without one or more of these, you'll just be a burden to them.
You're welcome.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@Iwillwait I haven't seen you yet. I think your selfie is long overdue
kimmy159 · F
@rrraksamam I appreciate that as well. At the end of the day, we all want to have some luxury (at least that’s the case for me too), but I also don’t mind working hard for that myself. I just don’t see myself clicking with anyone long term who wouldn’t match that more or less. I have no intention to become the support giver financially nor be maintained either 😂 We also want someone who understands us and our worries, so being around the same intelligence (or someone smarter) is nice, if not then I guess as long as they’re nice to look at it could fill some gabs 😂 (jk)
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@kimmy159 Everyone talking about kindness and humility and blah blah blah... those are all secondary traits.
A person could have all of those good traits but if they're lacking the four I mentioned above, they're going to be treated as losers.
That means, for those who didn't get it the first time: No dates. No dates, no romantic interests, no girlfriends, no relationships, no marriage.
The best you'll get is the friendzone.
A person could have all of those good traits but if they're lacking the four I mentioned above, they're going to be treated as losers.
That means, for those who didn't get it the first time: No dates. No dates, no romantic interests, no girlfriends, no relationships, no marriage.
The best you'll get is the friendzone.
kimmy159 · F
@rrraksamam It’s just the harsh reality 🤷🏻♀️ when I got promoted at my job a few months ago, I got the most Linked in messages I had ever received in my life 😂 of random people too and they all started adding me. It was so confronting really. People don’t take you seriously until you have some supposed value in the areas you mentioned 🙈