I need to rebuild my walls.
I always get let down. But it’s my own fault for caring, for expecting more. Today is kicking my ass. I go again tomorrow.
31-35, M
CatCatKittie · 51-55, F
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Lilnonames · F
Revanchist · 31-35, M
@CatCatKittie It hard though isn’t it, it’s like people can sense vulnerability and prey on it.
CatCatKittie · 51-55, F
@Revanchist Exactly 🥺
MellyMel22 · F
Revanchist · 31-35, M
@Convivial Yeah you’re right. I’m old enough to know better lol.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
OogieBoogie · F
I dunno about walls...walls make your own prison.
I started making them and all it did was tighten up my feelings.
Im more for 'lettin' it all wash over'.
And... trying to remember that when i do give emotionally, i give freely...with no expectations.
Not saying it ALWAYS works.
Sometimes there's a bit of hurt, but i work on letting that go.
Expectation is the key thing here.
Think of what you give as a 'present', a 'gift'.
You don't give a gift expecting one back, you give it because you want to🤷♀
If you can kinda apply that to your feelings....it makes it easier to accept if things dont work out.
💚💜
I started making them and all it did was tighten up my feelings.
Im more for 'lettin' it all wash over'.
And... trying to remember that when i do give emotionally, i give freely...with no expectations.
Not saying it ALWAYS works.
Sometimes there's a bit of hurt, but i work on letting that go.
Expectation is the key thing here.
Think of what you give as a 'present', a 'gift'.
You don't give a gift expecting one back, you give it because you want to🤷♀
If you can kinda apply that to your feelings....it makes it easier to accept if things dont work out.
💚💜
Revanchist · 31-35, M
@OogieBoogie That’s deep.. and very true. It’s been a bad day, I think I’ve let it get the better of me.
Thank you, I’ll try to keep these words in mind 🤗
Thank you, I’ll try to keep these words in mind 🤗
OogieBoogie · F
@Revanchist Hang in there bud💪