Miram · 31-35, F
What did you say that was so bad? Or do..
GymRat584 · 41-45, M
@Miram After holding it in for a few years, I finally expressed the pain I've been feeling due to the lack of intimacy in our relationship. My hormones have been all over the place as I'm still recovering from Pituitary Adenoma surgery, and her libido is just down completely l, courtesy of Rheumatoid Arthritis.
I didn't fault her for anything. I have no doubts that she loves me. But I've been feeling lonely in this relationship for years because I addressed her needs and put my own needs on the back burner for years.
I didn't fault her for anything. I have no doubts that she loves me. But I've been feeling lonely in this relationship for years because I addressed her needs and put my own needs on the back burner for years.
Miram · 31-35, F
@GymRat584
Then it is okay.
You two just have to learn to play in different ways. Libido and intimacy don't always have to go hand in hand. Learn new things, peeps. There is a lot of fun stuff. Just play and explore.
She, right now, doesn't feel like she is good enough. Go sooth her and don't wait for silence to fix the communication. Give her love and guide her back to more fulfilling relationship.
Then it is okay.
You two just have to learn to play in different ways. Libido and intimacy don't always have to go hand in hand. Learn new things, peeps. There is a lot of fun stuff. Just play and explore.
She, right now, doesn't feel like she is good enough. Go sooth her and don't wait for silence to fix the communication. Give her love and guide her back to more fulfilling relationship.
Birdbox1986 · 31-35, F
What did you tell her ?
DareToSayIT · M
Sometimes people just need time to process and reflect. It’s completely fine if she doesn’t want to talk right away and needs some space to figure things out. Everyone handles situations in their own way, and the best thing to do right now is just give her that time. Pressuring her or invading her space will likely only make things worse. Just wait for her response if you have already sent a text.
GymRat584 · 41-45, M
@DareToSayIT I texted her the day after everything went down, and then one more a day later. So, it's now been two days since I tried to reach out.