Text from my wife

So i got this message today

I just noticed today is the day your sister died 25 years ago.
I hope you keep your shit together around the kids tonight and don't get them worked up over this. I don't want to deal with them being upset or asking me a bunch of questions. Its been 25 years move one.

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Soossie

Forgive me for asking ….. Why would you allow her disrespect you, and your emotions like this??

Not that you should get disrespectful or aggressive but she wouldn’t talk like this if you didn’t allow her…

Setting boundaries is important…🙏

Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M

@Soossie i am not ok with what she said but even before we separated i didn't control her. She is her own person. Shes her own person.

SW-User

@Cigarguy101 being ones own person, and being insensitive are two very different things.