I'm so sad

@MyNameIsHurl I cannot put it into words right now. But thank you for caring 💙

@TheBlueCrow well I'm sorry and I hope you feel better soon

@TheBlueCrow Im sorry to pry,but if you dont put it into words,nobody can help you with it.

@DavidT8899 they weren’t asking for help. Just expressing a feeling

@WaryWitchWandering Thats well and fine,but my experience tells me that if a person is expressing that they have a problem in a public forum,they,at least on some level,are looking for someone to help them with it.

That’s not so. Some just want to share how they feel. Get it out there. It helps to share, even if no one can help. It’s like releasing a pressure valve. Just knowing people are there with kind words of support can mean a lot. @DavidT8899

@Carissimi It can mean more if people can give practical advice on how to handle the problem.

Practical advice can help at times, but only if it’s asked for. The OP didn’t ask for advice.

I’ll give you a tip for your future life: most women don’t want advice from men, they want you to listen to them, and empathize. Nothing to do with this post, just throwing it in for free. If a woman wants practical advice, she’ll ask for it. Otherwise, she wants you to listen and understand how she feels. @DavidT8899

@Carissimi What would be best off all is to give both.And that applies no matter what the sex of the person.

You are wrong. I’m telling you the truth, and this is why men don’t understand women. I’ve told you. Take it or leave it. @DavidT8899

@Carissimi Ill leave it.And I dont think you can generalize in terms of understanding.It depends on the man and the women and the situation.

No. It comes from being a woman for more than 60-years, and knowing more than a man of 18-21 about how men and women tick. You’ll find out ... given time. @DavidT8899

@Carissimi I suppose I will,one way or another.