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Do I seem like a negative nellie here?

I don't feel like one, but I know I have my moments.
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
The last thing the world needs is another phake positive patty.

Tbh I get sick of people here complaining about other people who are negative.

Doesn't anyone understand science?

The laws of polarity?

Math?

Life in general?

We really stifle ourselves entirely when we pretend nothing considered negative happens. Negativity is not bad. It's not wrong.

Usually when someone is complaining about negative energy and boundaries I see a person who can't really cope. They want everything to be nicey nice because they can't handle struggle and don't know how to stand up or learn.

Be you. I appreciate you a lot and enjoy your thought provoking words.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@ScreamingFox Tbf, I don't care what someone else thinks of me, however, what they said made me self-reflect. Am I always negative here? Am I not showing my full spectrum?

Thus this post. Sometimes, i can't see myself well, so I ask to get some clarity.

I certainly refuse to produce toxic positivity, but if all I'm doing is creating more negative in the world, I'd like to not.

And thank you. I appreciate you too and often wish i had words for you to help with your life.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@FoxyGoddess well I don't find you negative, but I see a lot of value in self reflection.

I don't post about my personal issues much at all any more, so hopefully people will stop avoiding me so much 😂
Magenta · F
No, I don't see it that way. You're being real and that is rare. This toxic fake positivity many like to spew and color everything with makes me feel ill. Don't let them put you in a box, so they can feel more comfortable.. 🌹
Ferric67 · M
no, I wouldn't say that at all
You mean well and come from a good place
I've never gotten that impression at all, you have always posted in what to me is a very balanced and normal manner

Is someone saying that you are negative?
If so is it just because they disagree with your politics or such?
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@ThirstenHowl Thank you!

Honestly, I'm not sure what they didn't like about me. They started making comments that were pretty rude. I let it go for a moment, thinking maybe I was reading them wrong, but the comment of, "do you like anything?!" got rewarded with a firm block.

But, that doesn't mean I am going to disregard their perspective. They may have a valid point and I'm too close to myself to see it. I'm willing to admit that maybe I see myself incorrectly and I'm happy to readjust if that is the case.

That also doesn't mean I'm going to allow someone to continue being openly rude to me either.
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
Why would you even think this? You`re open and honest, that doesn`t make you a negative Nellie. It makes you, you. 🌹
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@Degbeme
Thatsright · 61-69, M
Now that you mention it …
AbstractWave · 61-69, M
No the total opposite 💯😃

 
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