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The baby has arrived, but no pictures were received. Others' phones are flooded with images. Am I missing something?

This is a follow up to a question I've asked two months ago.

My hypothesis seems accurate - the friendship is fake/forced. Would you, in this situation, address the "elephant in the room" (in other words, problem) with your 'friend', or forget about it? I guess my absence to a shower was offensive, even though I had to work. I still bought and sent a gift, which was well received, and didn't hear back from them since. I know parenting is a huge commitment (it's part of life), but I feel as though I was used for show and tell, between May and June. This is the friend that I just can't talk to, because that connection is no longer real since 2014. What should I say, without causing any hurt feelings?
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ive been there with a few people. caring more about a person than they cared back. if you havent spoken for so long its probably the connection isnt there anymore somewhere along the way something happened or the person changed. it hurts being brushed away but you kind of have to live passed it. ive had it where the friendship just stopped on there part and you go and talk to them gain after a while and they just seem distant. totally different that the person i use to know. its sad because you think of the past and the past times you had with them and its not there anymore. some people you can rekindle the friendship and others it wont be there again.
iQuit · F
sometimes silence carries more weight than words

Why should you say anything really- people drift apart.
No reason to make a fuss- just live your life

and if/when you two rekindle a connection- forget the past and enjoy the present

life is too short to worry about the negatives

 
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