Can somebody tell me why as a passive and very mind and polite person is very annoying?

People seem to like people that are a little rude and blunt.

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I don't hang out with people that are too nice because they hold everything in and therefore are more likely to become serial killers over a misunderstanding about the color of dresses to wear to the party tomorrow night.

MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F

@ChaoticallySimple: I will have no intentions of being a serial killer. How could you ever so say that?! You like rude people?

ChaoticallySimple · 31-35, F

What do you consider rude?

MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F

@ChaoticallySimple: people being blunt, not holding doors to people. When people are polite but also a little rude and tells it like it is.
My sister is polite but also blunt and straight up to the point. She has a lot of friends.

ChaoticallySimple · 31-35, F

Exactly. You have to figure out where you stand. I believe the saying is "if you don't stand for anything, people will walk all over you."