Why do people think you have to do everything with your spouse and if you do something without him/her it's viewed as weird??

I went out the other night without my husband cuz he didn't feel like going where I was going. People told me that was odd that I'd go out without him. He was happy doing his thing and I was happy doing mine. What's wrong with that?

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SW-User

Nothing's wrong with that at all. But everybody does marriage differently.

DanielChristensen · 46-50, M

Sounds like you have healthy trust and enough confidence in yourselves and each other to have no problems with retaining individuality.

naoradix · 36-40, F

Everyone is different. My husband and I both like all the same things and like to do everything together. But that's just us.

SW-User

Nothing as long as you're both ok with it

SW-User

Nothing is wrong with it

DiamondInTheMud · 31-35, M

People are different. You guys have a pretty healthy relationship. Personally I don't worry when my partner hangs out with her friends. At some point in the night I check the clock though. ;-)

eMortal · M

Nothing is wrong with. Actually your reconnection with him later on feels more intense cuz you prolly missed each other during through the day.

SW-User

There is nothing wrong with it. Being married doesn't mean you are suddenly conjoined twins.

Wiseacre · F

The world is full of idiots!
Just do ur thing and ignore what they say..

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