When you look back at old pics of yourself, esp selfies not ones others took, what do you think?
I tend to think about how attractive I was compared to now but didn't even realise it or have it 'register' as a thing I had going on at the time. Hindsight can be a bitch. 8-)
Also gets me thinking about where I was in life at the time, esp around relationships (or not) and how fortunate I was to actually have some whereas now I'd be super scared to even try (I'm 58 now) and I don't approach women or talk to them or even interact with women socially or at my work with any inkling of romantic/sexual interest as it's now way too dangerous to go there irrespective of the situation.
I just looked at some selfies I took 18 years ago (2008).
I've never really thought of myself as attractive 'in the moment' (like in the present day) but two women showed enough interest that at least to them, for a time, I must have been. Now - not so much.
I have pics of my kids growing up and check them out now and then. My adult kids (oldest is now 28) and my 9 y/o daughter. You wonder were all the time went.
Also gets me thinking about where I was in life at the time, esp around relationships (or not) and how fortunate I was to actually have some whereas now I'd be super scared to even try (I'm 58 now) and I don't approach women or talk to them or even interact with women socially or at my work with any inkling of romantic/sexual interest as it's now way too dangerous to go there irrespective of the situation.
I just looked at some selfies I took 18 years ago (2008).
I've never really thought of myself as attractive 'in the moment' (like in the present day) but two women showed enough interest that at least to them, for a time, I must have been. Now - not so much.
I have pics of my kids growing up and check them out now and then. My adult kids (oldest is now 28) and my 9 y/o daughter. You wonder were all the time went.
