I hate when people give me advice

I think sometimes people don’t know what else to do or say… sometimes that’s the point though I guess, there’s nothing to do or say ((but listen)) and ACTUALLY listening can be difficult, when there’s nothing you can do/say.

I am guilty of this. I find myself wanting to offer an idea to fix a person’s struggle, which is silly because I don’t even have my own shit completely figured out. I think as humans we find other peoples’ struggles/discomfort easier to focus on and “tackle” sometimes. Maybe other times it’s the opposite and their struggles just feel unacceptable to witness, and so there is a scramble to try and “fix”

I dunno 🤷🏻‍♀

All I said was lock the door behind him. ;)