What happened to that friend you thought you’d have for the rest of your life?

We were friends thirty years. I lived with him and his girlfriend and he assaulted her.

They are still there.
I got two of em. 🙂

They sound shitty.

I currently have my best friend blocked. As much I love them to pieces, I know full well it won't cure them of being a narcissist (this isn't me just throwing this word around... I promise.) after 17 years, I've just had enough. 😔🥺

He wanted me to make a florida to boston drug run 6 or 8 years ago. Then he wanted to move in. He's very smart, smarter than me but has problems. He got pissed that I said no to him living here, and the drug run thing told me he's become a bad friend, and that was the end of it

It was a combination of things. Knew the guy since 2nd grade for starters. Over time we became different people and he changed a lot when he started hanging around these other people. He became stuck up and snobby and focused on labels and kept treating me like the poor friend. He would lie about what city he was from to those people making it seem like he was from a more well to do area. I got replaced over time by someone else and got knocked out of the bestfriend slot. Final straw was him lying to get out of going to an event with me to tend to his other friend. I let loose and never looked back. We were nearly 30 then

He died

he ended up with a cardiac event that screwed up his brain and it's seemed like he doesn't really know who he is anymore much less who i am

we talk occasionally. havent seen him in 20 years or so. no bad blood. we just kinda drifted apart.