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I have been criticised for being too organised. Is this a failing?

Everything can be a failing when it falls out of balance. Too much of a good thing and all that…

Our mind is a reflection of our environment and vice-versa. An orderly living space helps to declutter your thoughts, and a quiet mind helps you to select only the necessary effects for your surroundings.

On the flipside, a disorderly environment can promote creativity. To navigate a less-than-perfect space can promote a similar productive chaos within your imagination.

When either of these gains too much momentum it can and will consume energy that you could be using elsewhere.

If you need your home to be so clean and organized that a little disorder causes you stress, then you’re holding on to control rather tightly. Cleaning can start to become so important that your housemates are on edge about causing any disorder at all.

If you’re messy enough that you can’t find the items in your home that you need to live your life, you’ll lose time searching for them. There can become so many layers of mess that you don’t even know what’s in the pile(s). It’s more difficult to keep a disorderly space sanitary.

In my experience, it’s better to lean towards the organized side. Disorder can snowball very quickly. It tends to reflect procrastination and poor self-image. To be “overly” organized takes much more effort, so defaulting to a messy state is definitely the lazier of the two.

But… too organized? I’m not sure. What do you think? Can you see why people have said that about you?

Who has said it to you? What was the context?

In the end, only you can make this call.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP
When the ones you love become second to organization, then it to much.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Too organized is called OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) and one of the marks on the autism spectrum. But as you indicate, they aren't necessarily negative if we recognize them and strive to employ them in positive ways. Some careers, lives depend upon detailed organization.

Otoh, it limits "out of the box" innovative & creative thinking. More of a random-access brain connecting far flung dots rather than making sure they are all in prescribed places. Which is what I live with. Was great for my career as I saw things others didn't; could gather and summarize disparate opinions from teams to get them to work together. But I also needed a couple of staffers following me around to collect, file, and organize things in my wake for future reference. And I truly miss that in my volunteer work now, because my office -- and computer -- are total chaos and so much time is lost searching for the precise thing I need.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Only if you are an annoying perfectionist type person.
Otherwise being organized is fine.

 
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