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What are you sick and tired of?

Beside my bs that is 😒
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kodiac · 26-30, M
Trying to be nice to people and getting shit in return
4meAndyou · F
@kodiac I'll tell you from my own experience, that NICENESS and Kindness are almost never repaid as you are thinking it should be.

MOST people in this world are users. Think of it this way...GIVE the niceness and kindness, expect NOTHING for it, and you will never be disappointed. BUT...you will start to grow a little glow in your own heart when you think of yourself, and WHO you are!
kodiac · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou Yup i really don't expect anything in return, but being personally attacked is not what I expect either
moonlightlullaby · 46-50, F
@kodiac Don't lose your big heart in this selfish world, kiddo🤗 ♥
kodiac · 26-30, M
@moonlightlullaby Thank you
@kodiac

Trying to be nice to people and getting shit in return

Yes!
@moonlightlullaby And selfishness is on every turn one can make.
kodiac · 26-30, M
kodiac · 26-30, M
@Unefilletrescurieuse Something I've found on the site a couple of times is people posting about being lonely then rejecting me when i reach out ,that can do a number on the person reaching out.
@kodiac People can be very immature and emotionally juvenile-ish. Sometimes we can be horribly misunderstood and also sometimes people don’t recognize kindness for just what it is.. “kindness”.

I’m sorry they’ve treated you that way Kody. 😢

I don’t know about you but I despise someone to think because I show them kindness, I’m coming on to them. That’s happened a couple of times to me and believe me …I gave them an earful.. it insults me greatly for someone to presume such a thing about me. Let’s just say when I finished my tongue lashing, there was no way in Hades, they could misread me then! That’s very insulting!

Keep being kind and caring Kody! There’s people out here noticing! 🤗
kodiac · 26-30, M
@Unefilletrescurieuse Thank you! To misconstrue kindness for something totally different says a lot about the other person, one user posted about being desperately lonley to the point of possibility checking out .I responded offering friendship, the response i got was considering you're age we would have nothing in common. Like he's so desperate but sorry you're not good enough.
@kodiac They can call me crazy if they want but I think people can be ‘friends’ no matter their ages. I mean dating and marrying is a whole other thing… But it all leads back to small minds and immaturity!

Never let people with all their many issues make you feel like you are not good enough! Don’t let them project that crap onto you!