My Perspective on Respect and Connection”

I have always treated people with a lot of respect and spoken to them in a good way. But people often expect something extra from me. They assume that because I’m married and on this site, there must be some problem in my relationship — but that’s not true. I’m simply here to talk to people in a decent way. Life is not only about sex. There is much more to it. For me, intimacy feels right only with someone I’m emotionally connected to. I don’t understand how some people can talk about sex with just anyone. These are just my thoughts.”

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ostfuidctyvm

Everyone is different and then a lot of men function differently to a lot of women when it comes to sex. I've never required any kind of emotional connection in order to engage in sexual activity, whether in real life or online. It's just never been important. I've never felt emotional during sex either. I'm just not wired that way. Fortunately these days my interest in sex is greatly diminished and so I can't be bothered to seek it out.

I'm here primarily to kill time and to offload my brain. There is a bit of chaos in there. I post a lot of stupid content and have fun. It's my own form of self therapy. It helps that there are some good and funny people here to engage with. I certainly don't have any toxic or predatory reasons for being here like too many here do.

Ann99 · 41-45, FNew

@ostfuidctyvm Yes, that’s true 🙂 I know everyone has their own life experiences, and that affects how they view things.