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So since I've been growing and learning more about my faith, and Christ, there's been a lot of discussion at my church around the idea of preaching to others.

This conflicts me greatly, as I've said in the past, I used to be Christian in name only and used to very much live by "to each their own" "live and let live" etc etc. of course now I've come to actually follow the beliefs I once claimed, I understand we as a people want to give as many people a chance as we can to come to know Christ.

My question is this, all those who don't believe, I'm really curious, if you believed there was a chance we were in fact correct, and we by all means could be,

What would you see as worse?
1. Christians pushing more and more to try and convince and convert more and more people?

2. Or, if Christians , with all our beliefs in that
You need to follow Christ to be saved, if we just excluded ourselves as a religion, and kept to ourselves?

I ask because I by all means want to give as many people a chance to know Christ as I do,
But I also remember those feelings of just wanting to keep my beliefs to myself and not really caring what others believed or wanting to bother others(I was not the nicest person lol 😅)

Edit: sorry I think I wrote this poorly, I'm not trying to claim or imply anything religious, I'm more asking a question around being made to make a choice you don't want to make, or being in a situation where your not even aware about a choice to Begin with (basically getting a bad end without being told a bad end exists)
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Ynotisay · M
I'm a lifelong atheist. I have no interest in spirituality or belief in any 'higher power.'

How would you feel, with your current beliefs, if there were millions of us telling you that you're lost? That your life has no meaning? That you're immoral and hateful?

And then what if atheists were given tax breaks, a seat at the political table, masterminded strategies to receive billions of dollars and, way too frequently, were responsible for some of the real "evils" the world? War, subjugation, oppression, child abuse and all the rest that we see?

You do you bro. There's different paths up the mountain. But you don't get to tell others. Because it's not bettering the lives of others. Christians do that to be seen. To be recognized by their 'team.' To acknowledge their own beliefs. To be 'right." Things your god tells you that you shouldn't be.

So maybe walking the walk should be a more important action for you to take. Take care of your own house. "I" have mine under control.
GeminiDuality · 31-35, M
@Ynotisay I entirely understand, more then most , considering how I grew up, my query in this was was more around how things end. I agree that those who aren't interested shouldn't be harassed, 100% with you there, but my curiosity is in if there was a chance to you that Hell existed, what's worse out of the harassment over self choice, or would being denied the knowledge in the first place be worse?
Ynotisay · M
@GeminiDuality

OK.

As far as your question? Even though I completely jump off at "what if?" Because that's the line?

So if we're talking about the Christian god, and not the multiple other gods, I'd like to think that if there's a choice between sending someone to heaven or hell for all eternity, the people who lived their lives in the way Jesus asked, are going to get in to heaven way faster than those who didn't.

And I don't think professing religion has anything to do with that.

Now what I see as an outsider is an extraordinary amount of hypocrisy in the Christian faith. And much of it falls under "Do what I say - Not what I do." I don't see that as much with non-believers. As a matter fact, the most moral people I know are non-believers. Or those who keep their beliefs to themselves. Those are the people who do the "right" thing because it's the right thing to do. It comes from a place of strength. Doing something out of fear of eternal damnation, which is entirely selfish, is an act of personal weakness.Particularly when SO many don't come close behaving in a way the corresponds to Jesus' message. And there's no denying that a large percentage of today's Christian thinking stands in direct opposition to that message.

So who is Jesus going to choose? The non-believer who walks the walk? Or the believer who talks the talk? While harming others in the process?

Easy call.

I know why you want to "spread the gospel." As in why that's part of Christianity. But you may want to focus up on your own house and walk that walk. Forgiveness, humility, respect, taking care of those in need. You know. The stuff that matters. That's where it's at.
Iwillwait · M
@Ynotisay I am "❤" your response out of Love, but your thoughts though understandable are incorrect.

Christians are not trying to have a money grab or push an agenda to create wealth nor influence taxes.

The very command of our Faith is to share the Gospel, "Good News," with every person. That very "Good News," is that Jesus has paid your debt owed due to our sins and sign nature. Our Father Who Art in Heaven, loves you so much that he sent His only Son to teach, model by His Life how we should be living with one another and to Serve and Love God with all of our heart, and to ultimately be sacrificed and die on the cross.

America and our Constitution was founded on Beliefs, beliefs that are Biblical and intrinsic in your very being of what's "Right & Wrong, moral values.

The reason Churches have tax advantages is due to their Charity Generosity. The reason Churches are supported is to continue to spread The Word and also treat a heart condition of those who love & soley rely on money as their source.

Everything we have, is ultimately not even ours, it's God's.


You pay taxes for services, both federal, municipal and statewide to contribute to the greater good of society because to keep that infrastructure running, resources must come from somewhere.

This also is true for Ministry outreaches and charities.

I am not aware of any Charities by atheist identifying organizations, but if they did/do exist then it would be a corporate structure as a Nonprofit 501C3 designation to have the very same tax advantages.
Ynotisay · M
@Iwillwait OK. Just know that I stopped reading at "your thoughts are incorrect." Because I knew everything after that would be a jack off. And I bet I was right. Slow your roll bud. Your god isn't on board with you.
GeminiDuality · 31-35, M
@Ynotisay yeah I'm not touching what Iwillwait said, I'm not American, so I'm not talking about anything American, in my country the church is honestly pretty small, in nz, frankly, our churches don't pay tax because the most common churches barely make enough to keep the lights on.

And your right, I'm not gonna pretend I read everything from either of you, but the Bible clearly states Jesus said "I am the way to eternal life" am I saying it's fact? Nope, I believe it is, but that's just my personal belief.

Yes I think doing the right thing for the sake of doing the right thing is important, I'm no saint, I don't deserve heaven, but I'm still determined to help others regardless, I'm not Christian because I feel like I'm a religious dude, I am because believing in Jesus helps me cope with life.

And asking shit like this might seem dumb, but I'd rather ask a genuine question then just spout the gospels to people that rightfully may just not care
Iwillwait · M
@Ynotisay That's unfortunate you didn't read my response. I apologise if the first sentence came off offensive.

I too was once questioning the Church and the motives behind Tithing and what then appeared to me as "Just wanting money," I was younger and immature and didn't fully understand or know what the funds were going towards. I truly was steeped in sin and during my period of almost 30 years declaring I was an atheist, I was a drug and alcohol abusing young man who did not want under any circumstances to be told how to live my life.

It was not until many years later I had an interaction with God that jarred what I declared was my very belief system revealing to me that lying to myself all along.

I would be happy to share my experience sometime with you.

Again, I apologise if you were triggered in some way.
Ynotisay · M
@Iwillwait Not unfortunate at all. Didn't read that and didn't read this comment. I don't indulge in certain things. For a reason. Have a good one.