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Deacon … Catholic… too friendly???

So lately I’ve been attending this OCIA class. Which I really do like. And I’ve been working on myself a lot and spending time with God and what not. However we all are human. And we all notice things and what not. Lately, I’ve noticed a (maybe level of attraction from the deacon)
It’s very very subtle subtle as he’s married. Anyways he talks to me a lot. And he’ll come up to me Ina way that’s really invading my space. I was in the middle of a conversation with my table and suddenly he pops up and sits reallly close to me to where I had to scoot closer to my friend because it was uncomfortably close. I let it go. Next time around, I’m yet again talking to my table and he randomly lays a hand on my shoulder in the way that thing from Wednesday would sit on your shoulder ( just using that to describe the event). Anyways it startled me because he didn’t say anything for a bit until I looked up at him akwardly and said yes? And I forgot what he said but I was shook by the hand gesture. So then tonight, we have lecture again and during the entire lecture about sin and inappropriate lust and everything this man is glancing at me like four and five times during the lecture. I focus on the screen to get my mind off it . So then he randomly texts me wayyyyy after class. Class get over at like 8:30pm and he’s texting me at 10 pm. At the literal exact time I’m thinking about all that during lecture today he goes “ congrats on the job again, I should’ve made a bigger deal about it earlier.”
What do you guys think. ? I’m obviously not going to do anything just wana know if I’m right about this attraction level.
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It sounds like you will soon be in a heap of trouble fooling around with a married man. The best move would be to lay it out for him the next time he does something, make it plain that there is no interest, but of course you won't do that. The fun factor is there, and who doesn't want to have fun in life?
A little fling, with god watching, it's all natural stuff.
Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@JamesBugman absolutely not. I couldn’t. But I do sense some chemistry
@Creolequeen We see this in movies all the time.. The denial, the rage, the confusion, then compliance, and willingness, and finally surrender.
The little devil on your shoulder is whispering that it's OK really, it will be fine, just once.
God rolls his eyes, he has seen this so many times even he has lost count.
Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@JamesBugman ya but it’s not ok. I’m just really observant unfortunately
@Creolequeen Guess you could try a point blank question, see how he reacts. "Deacon, have you ever sinned with another? I mean aside from your wife which of course is not sin"
Be sure you are standing really close and look him in the eyes like you want to kiss him but take no motion to make that happen. See what he does.
Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@JamesBugman no 🙄