Deacon … Catholic… too friendly???
So lately I’ve been attending this OCIA class. Which I really do like. And I’ve been working on myself a lot and spending time with God and what not. However we all are human. And we all notice things and what not. Lately, I’ve noticed a (maybe level of attraction from the deacon)
It’s very very subtle subtle as he’s married. Anyways he talks to me a lot. And he’ll come up to me Ina way that’s really invading my space. I was in the middle of a conversation with my table and suddenly he pops up and sits reallly close to me to where I had to scoot closer to my friend because it was uncomfortably close. I let it go. Next time around, I’m yet again talking to my table and he randomly lays a hand on my shoulder in the way that thing from Wednesday would sit on your shoulder ( just using that to describe the event). Anyways it startled me because he didn’t say anything for a bit until I looked up at him akwardly and said yes? And I forgot what he said but I was shook by the hand gesture. So then tonight, we have lecture again and during the entire lecture about sin and inappropriate lust and everything this man is glancing at me like four and five times during the lecture. I focus on the screen to get my mind off it . So then he randomly texts me wayyyyy after class. Class get over at like 8:30pm and he’s texting me at 10 pm. At the literal exact time I’m thinking about all that during lecture today he goes “ congrats on the job again, I should’ve made a bigger deal about it earlier.”
What do you guys think. ? I’m obviously not going to do anything just wana know if I’m right about this attraction level.
It’s very very subtle subtle as he’s married. Anyways he talks to me a lot. And he’ll come up to me Ina way that’s really invading my space. I was in the middle of a conversation with my table and suddenly he pops up and sits reallly close to me to where I had to scoot closer to my friend because it was uncomfortably close. I let it go. Next time around, I’m yet again talking to my table and he randomly lays a hand on my shoulder in the way that thing from Wednesday would sit on your shoulder ( just using that to describe the event). Anyways it startled me because he didn’t say anything for a bit until I looked up at him akwardly and said yes? And I forgot what he said but I was shook by the hand gesture. So then tonight, we have lecture again and during the entire lecture about sin and inappropriate lust and everything this man is glancing at me like four and five times during the lecture. I focus on the screen to get my mind off it . So then he randomly texts me wayyyyy after class. Class get over at like 8:30pm and he’s texting me at 10 pm. At the literal exact time I’m thinking about all that during lecture today he goes “ congrats on the job again, I should’ve made a bigger deal about it earlier.”
What do you guys think. ? I’m obviously not going to do anything just wana know if I’m right about this attraction level.
36-40, F
