OogieBoogie · F
Unless its urgent, politeness requires one doesn't text after usual business hours.
10pm is waaaay out.
Hand on shoulder:
We've become a 'no touch' society. People arent supposed to invade your space.
Personal space is like 1.5 & 2 ft.
Intimate space is less than 1.5 ft.
Touching someone is OUT.
As this is someone who's profession is ministering to and counseling people - they should know this.
Yes...touch is a powerful tool for comfort and blessing. But casually?
Hmmm 🤔
I'd question it too
10pm is waaaay out.
Hand on shoulder:
We've become a 'no touch' society. People arent supposed to invade your space.
Personal space is like 1.5 & 2 ft.
Intimate space is less than 1.5 ft.
Touching someone is OUT.
As this is someone who's profession is ministering to and counseling people - they should know this.
Yes...touch is a powerful tool for comfort and blessing. But casually?
Hmmm 🤔
I'd question it too
Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@OogieBoogie exactly. I knew I was right on point with this .. but what if I’m slightly raising an eyebrow on attraction too?? Again I’m staying away especially since he’s married nothing comes good from that. But I didn’t even think about it until all this
To add the wide at the beginning of all this weird obvious thing has been rude to me. I have her my number too to make sure she knew I was being genuine and bluntly goes I’m not gonna text you , When I gave her number.
I was like 👀
To add the wide at the beginning of all this weird obvious thing has been rude to me. I have her my number too to make sure she knew I was being genuine and bluntly goes I’m not gonna text you , When I gave her number.
I was like 👀
OogieBoogie · F
@Creolequeen if he's a minister it doesnt matter what your body language is.
Same for if he's married.
He took vows.
Same for if he's married.
He took vows.
Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@OogieBoogie exactly. I’m staying back
It sounds like you will soon be in a heap of trouble fooling around with a married man. The best move would be to lay it out for him the next time he does something, make it plain that there is no interest, but of course you won't do that. The fun factor is there, and who doesn't want to have fun in life?
A little fling, with god watching, it's all natural stuff.
A little fling, with god watching, it's all natural stuff.
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Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@JamesBugman ya but it’s not ok. I’m just really observant unfortunately
@Creolequeen Guess you could try a point blank question, see how he reacts. "Deacon, have you ever sinned with another? I mean aside from your wife which of course is not sin"
Be sure you are standing really close and look him in the eyes like you want to kiss him but take no motion to make that happen. See what he does.
Be sure you are standing really close and look him in the eyes like you want to kiss him but take no motion to make that happen. See what he does.
Creolequeen · 36-40, F
@JamesBugman no 🙄