Some thoughts about "Ghosting"

Uhhh I get accused of this so many times here and it pisses me off. Here's a thought... Maybe don't be such a boring arse and keep me interested. You wouldn't get ghosted then. If someone appears who I think is funnier, smarter or who makes me hornier than you do then sorry, but I'm going to talk to them. Also, I can multitask and keep up with around five different conversations simultaneously so if you do get ghosted, you're at the bottom of the pecking order. Sorry for being a bitch. I'm PMTing just a tiny bit and there's a few people on my slapping list right now. I'm normally nice. I'm just not today....

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ironborn · 51-55, M

It's not nice to be the recipient of a ghosting to be honest..recently happened to me and I started checking back on messages seeing if I'd said something untoward or upsetting. It makes you question yourself and wonder why? I wish they'd just have given me a reason or just told me ***k off.

I don't think I was boring...

Hey ho

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

I don't really care either way. I probably get ghosted loads of times but I don't let it affect me, there's always someone else to talk to. I think people are way way too sensitive about this.

ironborn · 51-55, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 Of course, it depends on the person..the one I'm talking about stung a bit to be honest. Seemed to be going well. I'm not sure there's always someone else to talk to. I don't find many on here that can hold a decent conversation.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@ironborn well you can talk to me, can't guarantee I'm not going to randomly leave you hanging whilst I get on with life but it won't be personal. 🤣

ironborn · 51-55, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 I don't mind the hanging, it's being ignored I'm not so keen on.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@ironborn what do you do if you're talking to people then other people start messaging? My inbox is like Piccadilly circus sometimes. I have to ignore people.

ironborn · 51-55, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 haha, well I don't have that problem, but yeah I get that. Maybe ignore is the wrong phrase...mid convo with someone, never to hear from them again..

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ironborn · 51-55, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 awkward, that was Q3 on my list 🫣