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KamLee · 31-35
A victim is a victim. Doesn't make anyone weak, just a fact. It's not a mindset at all. You can call it survivor or whatever you want. Same thing but more disrespectful to those who don't survive (which has nothing to do with their mindset and everythingto do with perpetrators).
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Reject · 31-35, M
@KamLee I could ask the same about you as far as replies go, but I already know why you keep it up. You want my validation. That’s how victims like you are, but I don’t couldn't care less about enabling your issues. I won’t be replying again, and I’m sure you’re at least smart enough to know why.
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What I've noticed is the gender of those who are attacking you.
Reject · 31-35, M
@RogueLodyte Right. 😄 I just don’t give people like that the time of day. She could have just disagreed and left the post alone. The fact that she showed up just to fight about it tells me everything. People like her only care about you agreeing with them or proving you wrong somehow if you don’t agree because they need to be validated by you. That’s what happens when you don’t love yourself and need some sort of help from others. That’s what being a victim does to people. It makes them spread even more negativity than there already was. It’s sad, but also not my problem.
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Reject · 31-35, M
@RogueLodyte Hey, if it entertains you, then I fully support that decision. I’m all for making the most of things and appreciate anyone who can.
Princess54 · 70-79, FNew
I’m trying to understand your point. If something bad happened to you it’s your fault? Stop playing the victim? If you believe only in good nothing bad will happen to you?
Princess54 · 70-79, FNew
@Reject thanks, I understand that.
Wiseacre · F
Cut out the word fault. People are not to blame for decisions they make.@Reject
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre If you think hard enough, no one is ever to blame for anything. I don’t put my effort into thinking that way though.
Wiseacre · F
Too simplistic. There is a reason why ppl do the things they do. The things one makes happen could be the result of lifelong trauma.
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre There’s always a reason. For everyone, for anything.
having someone to blame removes any personal responsibility 😇
Reject · 31-35, M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout 😂 Yes, I think most people enjoy being free of blame, but that makes them all too eager to tell you all about how much the world is happening to them.
Wiseacre · F
Ur on a different planet.very short sighted. Ppl are complex.@Reject
Reject · 31-35, M
@Wiseacre I am very different from most people. If you think so different that puts me on another planet, then you have no reason to heed the things I say.

 
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