Lowkey wishing there was someone I can just text ''come over''

No commitment but I want him to be committed to me in a way, not to love me but to be respectful and pleasant and not have any other girls... . I want him to get excited and come over when I ask him to, we'll have hot s e x and that'll be that. I think it's a bit disappointing that I don't have anyone I can do that with

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RosaMarie · 46-50, F

I have a couple of friends that we do that, but we're not exclusive to each other. It is nice. I do recommend it.

nothereforpeople · F

@RosaMarie yeah I think it's good if you do it with more than one person. Keeps you from getting attached

RosaMarie · 46-50, F

@nothereforpeople I'm busy, I'm attracted to people to tend to also be busy. So having a few options is practical. I'm not afraid of getting attached. These are people dear to me. I'm attached. But I can also go weeks without seeing one of them and that's OK too.