Lowkey wishing there was someone I can just text ''come over''

No commitment but I want him to be committed to me in a way, not to love me but to be respectful and pleasant and not have any other girls... . I want him to get excited and come over when I ask him to, we'll have hot s e x and that'll be that. I think it's a bit disappointing that I don't have anyone I can do that with

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RosaMarie · 46-50, F

I have a couple of friends that we do that, but we're not exclusive to each other. It is nice. I do recommend it.

nothereforpeople · F

@RosaMarie yeah I think it's good if you do it with more than one person. Keeps you from getting attached

RosaMarie · 46-50, F

@nothereforpeople I'm busy, I'm attracted to people to tend to also be busy. So having a few options is practical. I'm not afraid of getting attached. These are people dear to me. I'm attached. But I can also go weeks without seeing one of them and that's OK too.

SomeMichGuy · M

Do you realize how crazy that sounds?

You want

No commitment but I want him to be committed to me in a way, not to love me but to be respectful and pleasant and not have any other girls

(Emphasis added.)

You can't even put the letters together to just spell "sex", but you want a guy to give up everyone else to be ready to have sex on demand when you want it?

This already exists, and it's called a vibrator.

nothereforpeople · F

@SomeMichGuy So ? Freedom of speech... I get to say and desire what I want. Doesn't matter how crazy it may seem to you. I get to think what I want and just because I think it doesn't mean I'll do it. I'm good at telling right from wrong, thank you

nothereforpeople · F

@SomeMichGuy Besides, it's pretty difficult to keep count of the men who want and do the same thing. They trick women into getting into these sort of relationships with them where the man is not committed but the woman is, and no one says a thing about it, but when a woman god forbid shares a fantasy then suddenly it's ''crazy'' and oh poor men....

Please don't comment on my posts if you don't have anything good to say. I get to want and say whatever I want, the way I choose to

SomeMichGuy · M

@nothereforpeople You want

no commitment TO him
all commitment FROM him

pretty asymmetric

But do block me or just post to those whom you follow. Easy peasy.

Nick1 · 61-69, M

That would be nice arrangement.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

You’re not there for people serves you right

nothereforpeople · F

@Ferise1 seems you're not very good at English. You're good at making assumptions and believing them though 😂

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

@nothereforpeople it’s literally your username

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