I don't think I can keep up

My life is going no where. I feel like such a burden to everyone. I hate myself for the way I am. I have a family that takes care of all my needs and yet I'm still not happy. I hate that I depend so much on them to just stay alive. Everyday is a struggle. I feel like I'm a bad person. I just wish I wasn't so pathetic and useless. I wish I could be independent and have my own house and car like a proper adult. Find love and connect with other people my age. I hate myself so much. I'm a disappointment. I'm a failure. I'm going to hell.

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Rambler · 61-69, M

We all need time to figure ourselves out, some of us need a lot of time (I certainly did ). Try different plans, make mistakes, change your mind, all that is part of getting to know yourself and what you want to do in the world. It is a struggle for a lot of people but you'll get there. The main thing is give yourself a chance and then another chance, as many as you need.