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Why are men never prepared for a no when they propose?

Every time a woman says no to a proposal the man acts like she's speaking another language for the first ten no's, then acts like he just saw a puppy die.

I mean I've never been in that situation so I can't say I'd do any better but I thought there would be some sort of etiquette around that. You're putting her on the spot. 😅 Is it not like being turned down for anything else in life where yeah it sucks but you gotta give them a way out?
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SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
I would guess that most people only propose when they think it's practically a sure thing. They probably aren't prepared for a no.
@SomeIrishPerson I guess they're thrown off
SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
@SinlessOnslaught
It would definitely be a tough situation. I like to take things calmly and be sensible and I still can imagine it would be pretty devastating to be told no to that.

Like a sledgehammer to the gut 💀
SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
@SinlessOnslaught
I prefer the term Communist but whatever you want
@SomeIrishPerson I'm calling Donald