Why am I having mixed and confused feelings?

There was a time when I was married and was in a very dark place. My ex husband was abusive and my marriage was hell. My brother was my biggest supporter. He was there for me through all of it. I got divorced and haven’t dated anyone since.

Now, the more I search for love, the more I long for a man touch, the more I want to be with a man, the more my brother comes to my mind. If I tell myself that I don’t have intimate feelings for my brother, I would be lying. If I tell myself that I’m not sexually attractive to my brother, I’m not being truthful.

But why am I getting these mixed and confused feelings? Like I know being with my brother is wrong, but it feels so right.

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swirlie · 31-35

For you both to be having sexual interests in each other could only mean one thing and that is, you two are not biological sister and brother.

Either it's one or both of you who were adopted into the family you grew up in, but you are not biologically connected to your brother in any way through either of your parents, even if your mother re-married and had a second child by her second husband.

The only way that both of you could be sexually attracted to each other is if there was no biological connection that you both shared. That is nature's way of discouraging incest, which is why teenaged girls hate their brothers and why a teenaged girl becomes repulsed at the sight of her father when prior to the onset of her puberty, she was daddy's little angel. Suddenly things changed and daddy can't figure out what happened to his daughter who no longer wants anything to do with him.

in10RjFox · M

@swirlie absurd and baseless theory.

and why a teenaged girl becomes repulsed at the sight of her father

That's basically because she develops sexual feelings towards her dad so much that she is brainwashed not to pursue it and in order to abstain, she distances herself as even a hug or kiss that turns her on. Many of my girlfriends have confessed to me that their first attraction is that of their father's phallus and they have tried to see it or feel it in various ways.

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in10RjFox · M

@swirlie

real people in the real world

And who are they? and what is the world that is real ? And who knows what reality means and how different it is from fantasy ? And how do you consider yourself a real person from a real world ?