Getting hurt feelings

My cousin that I rarely get to see ( I’m 69, she is 73) told me at a recent get together that she wanted me to loose weight. The last time I saw her about 6-7 years ago, she told me the same thing. It hurt my feelings and pissed me off. I would NEVER say that to anyone. Am I wrong to feel this way? There are things I could have said to her, but I didn’t think it was a good idea. I love her and don’t want to lose her.

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ThesebootsRmade4walking

I'm sorry that happened. As the other gals said. I couldn't have worded it any better. I can say hurtful things too. Then I'll realize what I've said was a bit mean. My intentions are never meant to hurt another. Sometimes I just blurt things out before thinking it through. That's my personality, but it's something I'm more self aware of and working on. It's okay to get angry, but try not to let it eat you up. Try to have a peaceful rest of your day💚

Mbingh01 · 61-69, F

@ThesebootsRmade4walking thank you very much❤