It’s simple math. + Positive - Negative.
Everything in life follows this universal order.
Negative things come from a lack of self care and therefore the need to take. Positive things come from good self care and therefore the ability to give.
This leads to my unpopular belief which says anything negative is your fault, but the same is true for anything positive. People like to blame something outside of them, but with enough self love, nothing ever has to be negative again because you become the positive to any situation. Same goes for self hate, just flip the words. It starts with you either way.
While I can’t say for certain exactly why our grand design works like this, I will say it’s the most basic fundamental rule of existence that everyone seems to get wrong. You might not know or understand how to love yourself and that’s fine, but I’ll tell you the very first step. It is acknowledgment that you are guilty for every single aspect of your life because for every single thing you can’t control, there is a single response that you can.
Believe me or don’t. That just reveals if you’re positive or negative and whether or not you do or don’t need to work on yourself. I say this as I have to get up and face a very negative situation that I’ll tell you, I didn’t choose. It came to me. Actually I’d say the one and only power I have here will be in how I see it. Which will be positively. Why? I don’t need a reason to be happy. That’s what happens when you’re responsible for it.
This is personal reminder for me as I’m human and I nearly slipped up in self care because it takes work each and every single day of your life. Constantly and forever. Like it or don’t, that’s your power to decide and you determine everything with it.
Negative things come from a lack of self care and therefore the need to take. Positive things come from good self care and therefore the ability to give.
This leads to my unpopular belief which says anything negative is your fault, but the same is true for anything positive. People like to blame something outside of them, but with enough self love, nothing ever has to be negative again because you become the positive to any situation. Same goes for self hate, just flip the words. It starts with you either way.
While I can’t say for certain exactly why our grand design works like this, I will say it’s the most basic fundamental rule of existence that everyone seems to get wrong. You might not know or understand how to love yourself and that’s fine, but I’ll tell you the very first step. It is acknowledgment that you are guilty for every single aspect of your life because for every single thing you can’t control, there is a single response that you can.
Believe me or don’t. That just reveals if you’re positive or negative and whether or not you do or don’t need to work on yourself. I say this as I have to get up and face a very negative situation that I’ll tell you, I didn’t choose. It came to me. Actually I’d say the one and only power I have here will be in how I see it. Which will be positively. Why? I don’t need a reason to be happy. That’s what happens when you’re responsible for it.
This is personal reminder for me as I’m human and I nearly slipped up in self care because it takes work each and every single day of your life. Constantly and forever. Like it or don’t, that’s your power to decide and you determine everything with it.
