Guys, would you date a woman who...

Had anxiety with many social activities?
Who occasionally would get panicked?
(But did love movie theaters or concerts...)

Or would you more date a woman who is fine with social activities?

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HumanEarth · F

I wouldn't be with someone that uses a cellphone. They have to be a cash only, payphone only, table tennis card holder person

Am I being a bit too picky

Actually, they would probably clash with me. I'm a in your face, very obnoxious type person and like to around other humans.

I'm the life of the party. The person to be with me has to be able to keep up with me socially in public and be willing to meet hundreds a new people

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@HumanEarth I typically am cash only..I do have a prepaid phone as my sister has two medical conditions and needs to occasionally contact me if I'm out .. she's housebound 🙁.
I really enjoy people, but I've been a people pleaser for decades , essentially due to feeling worthless. So being around many people makes me feel anxious sometimes. Like burnout. I think I need to find a balance of not thinking I need to help and make every person out there happy. 😮 I do think it's cool you enjoy lots of people.

HumanEarth · F

Oh I do have my days where I want to be alone to.

Everyone has them days. Even the famous Human Earth has to come down to Earth once and while. 😁😁

I'm lucky enough to still have a landmine telephone service. But I will be loosing in January 2026 because AT&T is no longer going to support hardwire service for private homes.

That's my catch 22. Because cellphones also don't work in very remote area. Our wireless form of communication is the good old fashion CB radio still and still is very popular in my area.

So how do I call 911 after January 2026. I'm screwed.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@HumanEarth My dad had a medical box that hooked up to the phone jack..he was to press it in an emergency and it would directly call 911 while sending ambulance too. That could be an option.
And to just have one prepaid cell in the family , so that hopefully it can occasionally get reception for some calls.

HumanEarth · F

There's no cellphone towers in my area