Sometimes I think that the reason I don't end up with a nice guy is that it's just so alien to me

When you didn't grow up with it, you feel out of place in the presence of a truly caring person. Like they are on a level that I don't belong at with them. I'm not saying that I'm a mean person, I genuinely love and care for people around me. But there's still this glass wall between giving that out and receiving it for myself.

Can anyone relate to this?

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

It's different for me. I only ever had something to do with nice, gentle and cautious guys but I don't get anywhere further because either I'm not attracted enough or there's some other obstacle. I'd say I'm weird in my specific way. It's hard to let anyone close to me because of the inconsistency in my feelings.