Sometimes I think that the reason I don't end up with a nice guy is that it's just so alien to me

When you didn't grow up with it, you feel out of place in the presence of a truly caring person. Like they are on a level that I don't belong at with them. I'm not saying that I'm a mean person, I genuinely love and care for people around me. But there's still this glass wall between giving that out and receiving it for myself.

Can anyone relate to this?

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TallMtnMedic · M

Absolutely can relate. I never liked being a "nice" guy - most do not, but I did like being a good man. There is a huge difference and usually once a woman gets in her mid to upper 20s, usually they can appreciate a good man.

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@TallMtnMedic Good man is definitely what I want, but I need to believe one of those could want me.

TallMtnMedic · M

@Kuronekko We're out there. Good women are hard to find also, but there's hope I guess.

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@TallMtnMedic It would help if people were honest in the beginning stages of meeting. I think im choosing well and it turns out I haven't.

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