Sometimes I think that the reason I don't end up with a nice guy is that it's just so alien to me

When you didn't grow up with it, you feel out of place in the presence of a truly caring person. Like they are on a level that I don't belong at with them. I'm not saying that I'm a mean person, I genuinely love and care for people around me. But there's still this glass wall between giving that out and receiving it for myself.

Can anyone relate to this?

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being · 36-40, F

Well well well .. I used to say that to myself a lot. I don't think anymore that that's true for me. I can be very caring and I can receive care.

I've yet to meet the flawless person. So even the kindest of people, needs attention and to be slightest protective towards and not give it all at once, take things slow, and keep the benefit of the doubt. That doesn't mean there's no trust or unconditional love, it means that human is another animal, making mistakes, having urges, desires, etc..

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@being Im working on it but its not easy.

being · 36-40, F

@Kuronekko nor for me, in words at least I've made it! Now action uh uh 🥺🤭😌🥰🧡

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@being yeah, action is the hard bit. I know the right thing to do, my brain just has to catch up.

being · 36-40, F

@Kuronekko words are important too because they express our beliefs... Once we get to change our beliefs... Change occurs too, I'm taking it slow this time though.
You're a starry 💫 person.. keep it up, we'll succeed 🤭