if you're a man, how can you hide 'desperation'

desperation for the opposite sex? especially if you're a solitary male, had flings in your youth, but have never had a long term girlfriend due to mental problems and are now in your late 40s.

what can you do? i know desperation frightens women off and is not attractive so how do you hide it?

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PaisleyHeart · F

First thought?…. Be yourself.
In the initial dates with someone, just enjoy their company. Listen, offer a light response if you want.
Go places that you both can talk about what you’re seeing—maybe museums, art, whatever.
A little time and then you can share, slowly—your deeper feelings.
Actually, not much different than good ole fashioned dating ;0)

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@PaisleyHeart thanks for answering and help.