if you're a man, how can you hide 'desperation'

desperation for the opposite sex? especially if you're a solitary male, had flings in your youth, but have never had a long term girlfriend due to mental problems and are now in your late 40s.

what can you do? i know desperation frightens women off and is not attractive so how do you hide it?

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Perry1968 · M

If you meet someone in the right circumstances then its best to keep it to small talk at first. Dont just throw your whole life out there. Find out their interests if you can and you.ll kind of know just by that alone if its a person for you. Visa versa too. You.ll be surprised how many people struggle. Sometimes you may well attract similar. I have had lots of GFs in my youth and married for 25 years.

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@Perry1968 thanks for answering mate.