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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
If your not used too love and you find love " Well that brings on fierce anxiety cause it's a new emotion to what your used too .
The sad thing about that and not blaming anyone that can lead to nervous breakdowns if both are not stable .
When one is stable that can be difficult as well but what I do " love " is the terms " Stick together through thick and thin " I tried my best with that .
I couldn't do anything else but it ended .
The after effects of it isn't nice at the start of a break up cause all your left with is fear and bitterness but after awhile when you give time time you can see that we couldn't do much more . There was a 6 year gap in our age. She was 19 . I was 25 and last until I was 29 .
I'm 44 now and what changed my whole perspectives in relationships at that age was when I was talking to a man who was 88 and he said to me when I was 37 he turned around to me and said ' sure your still only a young fella '
I had no come back to him cause he loved his life up to that age and watched his wife pass away .
It was then after he said that , that I could let go cause we were still young at that age .
That's my sum up about Love
The sad thing about that and not blaming anyone that can lead to nervous breakdowns if both are not stable .
When one is stable that can be difficult as well but what I do " love " is the terms " Stick together through thick and thin " I tried my best with that .
I couldn't do anything else but it ended .
The after effects of it isn't nice at the start of a break up cause all your left with is fear and bitterness but after awhile when you give time time you can see that we couldn't do much more . There was a 6 year gap in our age. She was 19 . I was 25 and last until I was 29 .
I'm 44 now and what changed my whole perspectives in relationships at that age was when I was talking to a man who was 88 and he said to me when I was 37 he turned around to me and said ' sure your still only a young fella '
I had no come back to him cause he loved his life up to that age and watched his wife pass away .
It was then after he said that , that I could let go cause we were still young at that age .
That's my sum up about Love