Is it rude to make enquiries about the lives of others?

In some cultures it is considered rude to ask a person what they do for work, because there is a perceived judgement on their lifestyle that they consider intrusive and potentially abusive. Have you ever begun a conversation with such an enquiry?

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FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M

If you've begun a conversation with such an inquiry, it doesn’t necessarily mean you were being rude. Often, the intent behind the question matters more than the question itself. Being curious about someone’s life is natural, but showing empathy and respect for their comfort level is key.