Is it rude to make enquiries about the lives of others?

In some cultures it is considered rude to ask a person what they do for work, because there is a perceived judgement on their lifestyle that they consider intrusive and potentially abusive. Have you ever begun a conversation with such an enquiry?

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YoMomma ·

I wouldn't begin a conversation that way .. I guess it could be considered rude if someone wasn't proud of their work or social status .. it depends on the intention of the asker I guess if they intend to be judgmental.. perhaps it is about tone?..