Do you still get angry for something that you know is not right but you're used to anyway?

What is it?

Sometimes I wonder if I am in the wrong for wanting my life to be better. Because better for me requires people around me to level up but they are not willing to.

They see me selfish for asking them to change. But see, I had to change again and again and again because it is what I felt I had to do to keep living for us and to help us thrive.

So I am used to everything. And still in the rare times I actually voice out wanting better ... why am I suddenly the bad guy?

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Samantha7599 · 22-25, F

I'm not sure if I would say I am angry, but I do feel sad about the way my boyfriend is to me. It's not always straightforward to change things when you know you have to leave, especially in situations where it's not always easy. My dad once told me to either be content or change it. When I attempted to change it, the outcome was always the same as it was before.

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@Samantha7599 Why not end things with him?

Samantha7599 · 22-25, F

@Casheyane we have a child together and there are other reasons I don't want to post public