Do you still get angry for something that you know is not right but you're used to anyway?

What is it?

Sometimes I wonder if I am in the wrong for wanting my life to be better. Because better for me requires people around me to level up but they are not willing to.

They see me selfish for asking them to change. But see, I had to change again and again and again because it is what I felt I had to do to keep living for us and to help us thrive.

So I am used to everything. And still in the rare times I actually voice out wanting better ... why am I suddenly the bad guy?