should i feel any shame about this

my social worker or case worker visits me every month, she's a young attractive woman...but the problem is my apartment is a dump right now, cluttered with lots of stuff and a bit untidy...should i feel any shame or just take the attitude of ' so what' and not give a damn.

she visits this monday morning.

what do you think?

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BuckeyesandOC40 · 31-35, F

I'd say more so for your own sake than hers you should try and give it a tidy, you might feel a bit better about things.

I will add given you mentioned her being attractive, no matter how well presented your apartment is, she's not going go on a date, she's your social worker and to her mind that makes it a no go.

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@BuckeyesandOC40 thanks for answering, of course you're right i didn't want to give that impression that i expected her to flirt or date with me...its just i felt a little embarrassed and awkward about the surroundings i live in.