Showering and eating helped with the sadness 😌

I still don't know where to go from here though, today or more long term. Something is missing from my life, but I don't know what. Every time I encounter something that feels like it might be fulfilling, it quickly turns into disappointment.

Whenever I think of a new hobby, I either run into complications that make it more frustrating than fun, or it gets boring after a few days. When I see a new message in my inbox here, people tend to log out after 5 minutes and/or after a while we just start to repeat the same topics.

Anything that made me satisfied in the past no longer does, so I don't know what to look for or work towards, which makes me feel rather hopeless and powerless. 😕

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jperez20000 · 41-45, M

This is my story. After I quit my job recently, a month has passed and I noted I was giving too much time of my life to a company, became a workaholic, and noted that I didn't took time to enjoy the things that I liked. Give a company 40 hours of our life a week is enough, and even less they deserve. We need time also to do our errands and things that we must do as "responsible adults", we need to manage that responsible adult time and simplify that time. I noted that I had to take Vacations, not 1 or 4 days, I mean a couple of weeks, specially if you don't take vacations in several years. All this accumulated "stuff" affected me to the point that I wasn't been able to truly enjoy the things that I loved. I don't mean that we should quit our jobs, but definitely we must conquer and set apart the TIME that we deserve. It took me a complete month to relax, and look back to my current life and say: Now that I rested correctly, and have a better use of my time, I can truly enjoy vacations and the things that I love.