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Stop being sad

A couple days ago I lost a friend over a simple comment. The comment? "Stop being sad". I am ugly and I'm dealing with a lot of things from the past I have nothing to really live for. The friend that said this is a recovering drug addict and she's changed a lot for the better and she didn't say this to me she just texted it to me but what's interesting is I know it's over between us.


I'm happy she's doing a lot better and she has her life back but we are too different now. That comment realm upset me, I just know she can't accept me.
James25 · 61-69, M
When being supportive to a friend it is important to validate what they are feeling. If they are feeling sad acknowledge those feelings without reinforcing them and be careful not to dismiss them.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
You're just at different stages in your life, thats all.
She's getting hers together and you've still got work to do.
LadyGrace · 70-79
You really haven't let her go. If you know it can't work then let her go. You can always connect with someone that will reciprocate your feelings and support you and encourage you.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
cancel culture bro :(
I wouldn't tolerate that, good choice.
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