Thoughts about single life...

Have you ever dated somebody and realized tgey arent the one for you?
I had a past relationship where the man chose to run away when things were good, but as soon as drama hit he was first to want to cuddle and cry on my shoulders. It got so annoying. Id pull him close, hed push me away. We dated off and on 6 months, he had good intentions, yet lacked communication. We end3d tge relationship and he kept calling me in his dire straighrs, but if i had a need or emergency he ghosted me.
I felt used, and after ive been single 6 minths now, im searching for a like minded individual...

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wonkywinky · 51-55, M

You have to ask"what IS a "relationship""?
Two people that in most cases are strangers that somehow decide like via witchcraft almost,to "see"each other socially,with a view to exclude "seeing" other people,and devoting a lot of time exclusively to the emotional and physical needs of that other person,altruistically.
This can be a rewarding and wonderful thing.
Or it can lead to sadness and life-changing emotional damage.
You almost take your life and someone elses life in your hands.
How many people have believed themselves to have "found the one",only to find out the other person in no way thinks YOU are "the one"?They maybe "liked you",thought you were cute,or charming,but love you?No way.Why do people treat other people like that?
It seems 50% of the world are people out looking for love and commitment,and the other 50% are out looking for "fun",a "good time"....The trick is finding someone in the same 50% as you.