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Why would someone create false rumours about another person?

Beware of the so called friends who appear to care for you, whispering things about another person to you. They could just be making all that crap up. Maybe they just enjoy watching you react.
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Fragile ego ....or jealousy ?
The need to lie to a third party about someone to demean them is a chicken shit move .
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@OogieBoogie It is. Because it seems to be hurting the person they are whispering lies to. For me, it will be gone and forgotten quickly because I am not invested in the story. Mostly just a nuisance right now and confusing.
@SW-User Welli...it's process brings people's true nature's into the light eventually .
1 - the person doing the lying .
2 - the people willing to Believe it 🤷

At work, we have someone like this ....and most people fawn to them .
But the interesting thing is, when they aren't there - everyone is happier, more relaxed and laugh more....and get along better.

Which I think is very telling .
To me it means, they aren't friends with this person out of genuine affection and respect, they are 'friends' with them only so they aren't a target.

A friendship made of Fear and falsity is basically a very fragile one 🙄....in fact, I question if it's one at all 🤔
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@OogieBoogie worth thinking about. Sometimes people encourage such friends because a part of them enjoys that toxicity. They end up gaslighting themselves when they refuse to listen to the nudges of their feelings.
@SW-User true ...true .