What were one of the meanest things your parents/parent did ?

I adopted an rescue bunny in 2016 , he had health issues , he had to be on an hay only diet for weeks , he had to have tones of mite treatmeants , I paid for all of this out of my own money. He were my bunny , I never relied on my parents. He passed away an year after. I have many stories about his antics. I became very depressed the morning I woke up for school to find him laying there dead. I cried for an whole day. I became physically ill that day. My dad just said I will take you to get another rabbit. I couldnt get out of bed. I cried that much I fell asleep. My dad agressively banged on my bedroom window constantly. After I ignored him banging on my door. Shouting and swearing. Calling me an lazy b..ch. And other names I cant say on here. It contuined for over two hours. I went to school the next day. I still dont forgive him for that.

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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

My mother really, for some reason, was convinced I was a terrible kid doing bad things. I think because i never talked to her and spent all of my time with friends. This was because my drunk step dad was an abuser and I was sick of it.

1. She went through my things because she found out I had a Black boyfriend.

2. She read notes from friends and my diary out loud to me so i could explain everything she didn't understand.

3. She threatened to tell my grandfather I was dating outside my race. So he would "disown me" he was important to me and she knew this.

I proceeded to tell my grandfather myself. He didn't give a fuck. She lost. I believe that was when my mother realized she wasn't going to bully me.

My mother did change. We struggle but I was able to get through to her. She no longer holds those terrible beliefs.