I hate saying this because it sounds so pious and egotistic, but I know myself more than anyone and I'm just going to say it. I've always had a super kind heart. That's my good trait. And my total honesty. That's the way I was raised. I'm a good person. That's all I have to say except I don't know how people can sometimes be so mean. It's awful. I don't know how people can be cold-hearted.
@LadyGrace I don’t understand it either how people can be so cruel. I have family members that are sadistic in what they do sometimes and they you can see them smirking and then acting like they were joking or it was nothing.
@cherokeepatti yep that's partly what I was talking about. Family seems to hurt us the most. My daughter has told my oldest daughter some lies about me just yesterday and boy does it hurt. But that's what she believes and her medicine has her mind all messed up, so that's what happens. There's no telling her any differently and she abandoned me years ago and she won't allow me to even see her, so yeah, family can really be hurtful. I'm sorry you have the same, problems with your family as well.
For those two teen boys who saw my bikini slip and flash my C cups as I took a run for it straight in to the ice cold water. It was probably not my face or my personality. 😂
For people who've seen me very vulnerable and shot down by life they probably think my strength was memorable.
For people who see my creative playful side they probably remember me as this fun bright flashing light.
For people I've helped they maybe would remember me by my good heart.
And my exes remembers me as a cold hearted witch for not marrying them lol 😂
@PhoenixPhail Well, it definitely makes me feel good to know that's what you find memorable. It's very easy to be nice to nice people... so thank you for that.🤗
People don’t remember me as a rule unless I step out of my comfort zone and give them a reason to. I generally prefer to be unobtrusive. I’ve lived here 20 years and Trish down the road still can’t remember my name. 😂
I am like dark chocolate, I am bitter but sweet. I am never perfect. I am kind and also bully at the same time. I less care about if others would remember me, that’s how it works for now. We all have our own roads to choose but somehow, eventually those I valued so much make ways to reach out.