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Something I don't like about myself is that inability to "let go"

It's tough and hard for me not imposible cause at some point I end up doing it ... but yeah.
Like part of me is quite loyal that even if things aren't going well, if i care i don't like ending with bad terms. Abruptly is like a long agonize for me. But sometimes things happen and people grow apart, I know that, but that's only with very few people that I become like that.

On the opposite with some other people I'm cold, and don't have a problem if I don't see them again ever, cut ties and that's it. Anyway I don't like conflict. But will always defend myself when needed.


And with others I care about them... But quietly. Or from a distance..
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Sepia · 36-40, F
Loyalty is for the dogs.. ✌️lol kidding! It works with the right company. The way to build your trust with a few must show good example, the rest will follow…

If you have a hard time to let go.. Try to experiment, take the risk. Pull the trigger and abandon what you love the most. It evens out heavy frustrations.
SW-User
@Sepia 😭 can't imaging abandoning what I love

Yeah, with the right people it's a blessing
Sepia · 36-40, F
Abandonment doesn’t mean you no longer love them.. It is still love but if you are suffocated..somehow you need a space that will heal you..@SW-User