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Is this abusive behaviour?


The person who said this then gaslit me into thinking I've misunderstood. He's done this before and NEVER admits he is wrong. They were wrong for being so offensive. He then sends a message of concern because he has not seen me online and keeps clicking like on my photos. He's the one who caused the problem!

He's also started publishing stories which he didn't do before possibly to see if I'm looking at them. I hate these unsavoury c****. I wish I had a close friendship with someone nice.
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
Block him... then ignore him. Do not respond at all. If he realises you are not responding he should see that his behaviour has become totally pointless even to him.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@ArishMell that's somebody who's making themselves feel better because i knocked their confidence by not being all over them. Why would I be?
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@PaleandPolluted Indeed. The person concerned seems possessive, in that case.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@ArishMell the ironic thing is these people are always the type who'd be ignored. He said i barely spoke but when he spoke i couldn't even hear him.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@PaleandPolluted Sounds as if better off well away from him.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@ArishMell he keeps constantly clicking like now. It's becoming like stalking.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@PaleandPolluted That is a form of stalking, but I suggested totally ignoring him because he is desperate for a response. If he never has an answer, his antics are pointless and hopefully he will become bored with his own childishness, and give up.